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September 7, 2016

End of August Happenings

No PHEW....August was H.O.T..... HOT!!

Dominic did great with his swimming lessons. He learned how to kick, float on his back, use his arms to move. Then we went to Pensacola, and it's like he didn't learn anything....so I am going to look at the local Y and see if maybe he can do some winter classes there. It seems those are the ones that don't have HUGE waiting lists (compared to summers). He also got so much better at writing his name. He's doing better, he hates doing it, but it's important. He learned some sight words and can figure out most of the words he is trying to read...haha, but he's totally guessing, he's nowhere near ready to read. Then again, I dunno. I only push it every so often. He has so many beginners books that he enjoys looking at, we'll keep trying with those. He also learned how to tell time and do simple addition. He can tell you what time it is accurately. Recently, he's starting to show interest in Spanish...and who am I to deny him his heritage? (haha). So, he found a book we had in the toy room ( I had no idea we even had this flap book) and we have been learning some Spanish words. He thinks they sound funny....what a goof.
The water was so cold

He found a new friend in Primary. They just recently moved and both of our families have the same age kids, and he loves N. They sit together and do goofy stuff. I'm glad he finally found someone who could be a silly as he is. But now, they have to keep them separated in primary because they talk too much haha. But N has come over and played with Dom....and I sent them outside, because they were so loud haha.

Loves it!

Ethan has reached an anxiety phase...and its ANNOYING. He was doing okay in nursery for about a couple of Sundays, and then all hell broke loose.  He cries every time I walk out- if I take out the trash, If I leave to go to the gym, or run an errand. I mean...he sobs. I take him to my mom's every morning, so Dom can go to school and I go to the gym..and he cries for about 10 minutes and then gets over it. But nursery??? It's another beast. He doesn't even want his dad. It has to be me, and what drives me bonkers...is that he doesn't want or care to be next to me. He just wants me in there. If I'm in there (sitting in the corner)...he's totally fine- he'll play with the other kids, he'll eat, he'll sit for story time. But the minute I walk out, I can hear him all the way to the chapel....and it's non stop. He begs the leaders to let him out. I hope I don't get called to Nursery haha....
He needs to get over it, because I just found out he may be old enough for Dom's preschool next year, and I would love for him to go.
They were playing lifeguards

Also, he's started grinding his teeth (I think it's part of the anxiety). He started sucking on a blanket, which was tolerable. But recently, he's started to grind teeth usually when he finds the blanket or gets a bit excited to see me. I remember my younger brother doing that, and when his baby teeth fell out, you could totally tell they were flat. I don't know why I remember that...probably because it was so bizarre. So, every time I see Ethan doing it, I squeeze his chin and say "no" and he stops immediately. I am not really sure what else I can do. It hasn't gotten out of control, but neither do I want it to.
He regressed in potty training because of our beach trip, but got back on track recently...I am so lazy. I don't know how people have patience for this. I just let him walk around naked hoping he will figure it out...and I don't think it's working. 
he really liked it
He can hold it pretty good, and he can go number 2 just fine in the potty...but I swear there's puddles everywhere on the carpet. I hate..no...I LOATHE carpet. Whose bright idea was that?!? carpet is not good with kids nor pets. If I had it my way, my house would be all tile or all floor. You can clean all those with cleaners....I can't do anything with carpet. Sure....you buy resolve...but it's still in the PAD. Have you ever changed carpets and the pads are all stained?!? You have been walking around in filth for years...does that not bother anybody else? I can't even imagine if it's throw up or pet bodily fluids...makes me cringe. Point is...I need to figure out something else with Ethan. He does tell me when he has an accident though...he will say "uh oh" over and over again. So, I know he knows, but he won't sit long enough to actually do it in the potty. When he does do it, he likes to high five and put his hands in the air ....and congratulate himself....haha. I am determined to stop using diapers....I...am just done.
Neither likes pushing...but someone has to do it. 

He learned new words this month like "uh oh", "done', "there", "NO"...you know, the important ones.
Nursery bubbles are the best

Spencer and I finished tiling the shower...OH MY HECK! I am yet to find out how flippers flip homes in 30 days, because it took us a week to put in the pocket door, then a couple of weeks to set up the concrete walls again for tile (and do the shower base), then two weeks to get the tile because we had to order it....and it took us about two full days to put the tile up but 4 days for it to dry....then 2 more days to grout and then 2 more days for it to dry! As of right now, it is functional. It has a clear liner so we can use it. But for now, we need to get a custom glass door for it. It's probably going to be the most expensive thing..so we're taking our sweet time. Either way, it probably takes about 2-3 weeks to actually get it installed. 
Semi finished (functional) product


I'm sure eventually we will get there. Spencer has already asked for three weeks off during Oct and Nov...so, we have plenty of time to deal with more projects. He's pretty settled on building his own shed in the backyard...and clear out most of the tools from the garage...then, we will organize said garage and hopefully fit the other car back in there. Also, we plan on painting the kitchen cabinets white. We plan to do it so much faster than the shower. Since I've already painted several cabinets...I sure hope two days is enough- we will air brush them...we already decided that for it to go fast is to air brush the cabinets. Once we have that done, we will paint the kitchen and decorate a bit more of our taste. I don't even want to bother right now, knowing that I will have to take it down soon.  So MANY projects....aargh...and so little time. The back yard grass grew amazing. It's so plushy, we all love to go out there barefoot. It's the front yard that's still full of weeds...I'm not sure what happened. So we keep spraying that weed killer stuff on it, hoping they will give up. This summer was the year of the ants! Did anyone have any ant problems?!? we didn't really have any inside...but outside. I probably killed like 10 colonies over the summer. One was in the tree house, two by the foundation of the house, one by the garden (actually two were in there), and so on. It was ridiculous. And they were feisty....they bit, and I have the bumps to prove it. One day, it rained really hard and all day. The next day, I opened the side garage door to take out trash and I didn't even realiaze until Dom said something "MOM...so many ants!!!" the little boogers moved the colony from underground to the corner of the door...I could see all the little babies in the corner. They all ran as soon as I swung  the door open. I had to raid them all...it was a massacre. It was bad. Other than that, the outdoors is great.
we take 10-15min a day of quiet working time. Ethan has gotten so good
at coloring. So much better than Dom at this age.

We did a trip to the beach, and we loved being away from the heat. We went to the splash park a few times to avoid said heat. Most of the garden gave up- my pumpkin, cucumbers, strawberries all gave up. The tomatoes are in limbo right now and the watermelon doesn't want to give up. The new leaves are bright green and I can see a couple of tiny tiny watermelons. The only thing that actually survived were the jalapeno plants and the oregano. I have started to cut it down and drying all the stems so I can have dried oregano all the time. The jalapenos have not had fruit yet, but I'm hoping they will. Next year, we will move the vines to a cooler area, and leave the rest of the plants in the garden bed- lesson learned. Also, nothing grows behind the tree house...so now, we have to plant shade grass back there, so there's just not dirt. I am starting to believe that having a yard is a money pit.....
Our plushy yard
 Dom also started school in Sept and rekindled friendships with old friends. 
First day
We finally took down all flag decorations and are starting to set up for Halloween and Fall. I saw some cute stuff at Target spot but came back on Monday and it was all gone! what gives? So, we have to keep looking for more deals....but it's ok we have plenty of time before Halloween

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